Twitter is often an important tool in the writer’s networking arsenal. It’s fast, it’s short, it’s connected. Author Peter V. Brett was reminded last week that those strengths are also its obstacles. Today’s blog post is to illustrate that being careful how you compose tweets about controversial or sensitive topics makes a difference, and how you handle it when you misstep makes an even bigger difference. (And if you’re active and engaged, it is likely that you will at some point make a social media mistake.)
A Social Media Problem is Born
Last week’s genre author twitterstorm was set off when Peter retweeted the following:
How did you read this tweet? Some people took it as he intended (more on that later), but many, many people took Peter to mean any number of things like “It’s not fair I can’t have more rape without people complaining about it” to “I am making light of a serious topic” to many other things, none of which he intended. It should be noted that Peter has had some controversy about rape in his novels before too, so–fairly or not–he may already have people feeling unsure about his sensitivity.
So he didn’t mean it? You’d think I was just taking his word for it; but, here is his next tweet, posted just a minute after the first one:
If you saw the second tweet, you’d likely get a meaning closer to what Peter intended; but, the problem with Twitter is that the tweets flow by fast and furious, and seeing one is never a guarantee someone will see the next one. I am guilty of dividing thoughts up into two tweets sometimes, so I can understand why it would happen. The low character count feels too limiting sometimes; but, this is a lesson to us all that a complete thought in one tweet is a best practice, especially when it’s a sensitive topic such as rape. So what can you do to prevent this on the front end?
Stop and Think
While Peter’s intention was good, much like editing in your writing, his meaning would have been much clearer if his second tweet had been his first tweet, and there had never been a second tweet at all. Usually you can be casual on Twitter, but when sharing (again, especially sensitive material,) it is best that you take a moment and consider how it might look to someone else. Put yourself in someone else’s shoes and imagine. If you’re creating and writing, this should be something you already do anyway.
It is important to always remember that the only thing we’re in control of as is what we say. We can not control how others perceive what we’ve written, how they’ll feel about it, or what they’ll say about it.
Best Way to Handle a Social Media Problem
Problems like Peter’s really can happen to anyone. The internet moves so much faster than you could ever anticipate, and it seems bad news travels further and faster than good news. We all have the potential to tweet something that either we should just plain not have said at all, or more commonly, that will be taken in a different way than intended. Maybe you’ll realize it right away and delete it in time. Maybe you won’t. And if you don’t, and you want to handle it with grace, dignity, and humility. In my estimation, Peter handled this (mostly) well. What lessons can you draw? Here is what he did right:
His response was swift
Instead of letting it fester without comment (one of the worst things you can do with your “brand”,) he replied quickly and profusely. No one could doubt Peter was doing his best to manage the issue in a timely manner.
He stayed calm and rational
He got a defensive at a few points (more on this and the language of apology later), but given the harshness of some people’s reactions and how fast things were moving, I can understand his feeling how he did about it. Overall he kept it sane and decent. He never called names, he never got into any nastiness beyond initial defensiveness.
He expressed remorse
He apologized numerous times and admitted he could have done better and that he understood the other people’s points of view.
He had humility
Even to defenders, Peter said he understood how the tweet was interpreted and expressed that he wished he could have handled things differently. He could have just soaked up his numerous supporters’ comments and used them to say “See? You people who misinterpreted this are just plain wrong!” but, he did better than that. Here is a good example:
Finally, he put his money to work by donating to a related charity
This was a class act kind of a move, and can never hurt.
What should you do if you have a social media problem?
React quickly, calmly, and evenly as possible
You’ll undoubtedly be feeling emotions such as defensiveness, anger, annoyance, and embarrassment; but, from a public relations standpoint you have to put those on the back burner. If you are not able to do that–at least in writing–ask a trusted friend for help in composing your response.
Also, take responsibility completely
That’s the one area Peter could have improved on. His apologies were touched with the “I apologize to those who took my comment that way” and ” I apologize for wording that could be interpreted as such”. This (I assume unintentionally) serves to put some of the responsibility back on the offended party, and also doesn’t indicate any sympathy for the people who were upset–which is important in smoothing over feelings. Better phrasing would have been something along the lines of, “To those I hurt by my earlier tweet, I offer my apologies. I was not careful in composing my earlier RT. I’ll do better in the future.” It removes the “if you took it wrong” language, and turns it into “I am 100% accountable” language. Even if you don’t fully feel that way on the emotional level, that’s how you apologize. That’s how you take responsibility.
I should also say that I don’t mean to pick on Peter. He did well on the spot and under a lot of pressure. He is not trained in PR and let’s be real: writers don’t have the money to have staff to help with this sort of thing. I was simply inspired to write about it to help all of you understand how easily this might happen to you, and more importantly how to handle your own social media problem situations as they come up.
I hope you found this useful. I’d be interested to see other situations you think were handled well (or handled badly) if you want to share them in the comments.
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